How to fix a Relationship Problems

When we are watching a movie or reading a lot books the ending of a love story
were always positive. the characters story always end up a happy ending.
but in real life it does not happen as what you can see in the movie or in a story.

 A relationship always encounter a problem always expect that when you are going to enter
in a relationship. its up only to the partner how you fix those relationship problems
fixing a relationship problems is too simple but its hard to do it. it always depend on the partners.
if the partner are willing to restore or fix that relationship, that will always depend on them.
its and easy process but its hard to do it.


Common problems in a relationship:

• Expectation: partner expect much, and if that expectation will not meet that's the time problem will be in. do not demands with your partner.

• You want to be always right: you always to be right in all arguments that is one cause of relationship problems

• Cheating, trust: this two is in the same category because if you caught your partner cheat the trust is automatically gone and take note trust is not easy to put back and more worst it will never be back. even if there is no cheating involved but if you do not trust your partner then jealousy comes in

• Commitment : losing your commitment to your partner is one of a big problem. it is also losing the love little by little.

How to fix your relationship?

communication: try to talk with your partner and listen even if shes unreasonable
take time to listen and that could be a one way to see what really is the problem
between you and her.

Do not point out: do not say its you... because you...or in other words you always want to
point out the the problem is your partner and not you. that was totally wrong why do not
 you ask yourself whats wrong with me? is there anything wrong with me?. most of the people wont accept that that they were wrong the thing is you did not know that you both contribute on the problem
why do not accept the responsibility instead of putting the blame to your partner.


Seek additional advice: ask advice ask a couselor or a mediator to seek their advice what would be
best. this is to know how to control and restore the relationship that you have.

Some interesting sayings on Life

“Life Is 10% What Happens To Us And 90% How We React To It”

“Big Lesson Of Life Are Learnt From Little Mistakes”

“We Cannot Direct The Wind, But We Can Adjust The Sails”

“You Only Live Once – But If You Work It Right, Once Is Enough”

“When You Were Born, You Cried And The World Rejoiced, Live Your Life In Such A Way So That When You Die The World Cries And You Rejoice”

Related Quotes & Sayings:

- Chuck Palahniuk famous quotes on life
- Most difficult phase of life - A famous saying
- We make life by what we give - famous quote

How to move on after a Break up

Moving is not an easy thing as counting your fingers,
this would be the time that you are to dealt with your emotion
no one can say when you should move on there  is no exact time with this kind of
feeling its only you who can say i already moved on because you are going to fight what you feel
here. especially for those person who love for 3 years or more and they just end up going in separate ways
with their partners.Break up was painful and difficult but it is not the end of the world yet for you.



Some helpful tips if you would like to move on

*Time will heal that wounds--- let the time heal the pain that you feel,do not take things too personally
   there is still hope for you.its just painful at first but trust me everything will be  fine as the time past by.

* Avoid Anything about your ex--- yes avoid anything that connects you with your ex keep away             those thing or memories that make you remember about him/her. because seeing or remembering those thing can draw your emotions.put away or let go those thing that reminds you of your relationship with him.

* Share what you feel --- your good friends is there to listen you and willing to lend  a shoulder for you to cry on do not keep your emotion inside let in out and you will feel good after you pump that emotions out.

* Do stuff that will let you forget about him. you may do some stuff that will put your interest to something
and will make you forgot what you feel for now. if you love writing why do not try put what you feel in writing, or do some stuff that is different like go into sport class,yoga,kick boxing, or badminton.
                             
* Go out and have fun--- do not lock yourself in your room and make yourself miserable
 call your friends and ask them out. go to some exciting place that will chill you out it will help you kick your ex out of your mind.

No one can help you but you yourself . you must know how to handle your emotions. its hard but you can do it.