How to fix a Relationship Problems

When we are watching a movie or reading a lot books the ending of a love story
were always positive. the characters story always end up a happy ending.
but in real life it does not happen as what you can see in the movie or in a story.

 A relationship always encounter a problem always expect that when you are going to enter
in a relationship. its up only to the partner how you fix those relationship problems
fixing a relationship problems is too simple but its hard to do it. it always depend on the partners.
if the partner are willing to restore or fix that relationship, that will always depend on them.
its and easy process but its hard to do it.


Common problems in a relationship:

• Expectation: partner expect much, and if that expectation will not meet that's the time problem will be in. do not demands with your partner.

• You want to be always right: you always to be right in all arguments that is one cause of relationship problems

• Cheating, trust: this two is in the same category because if you caught your partner cheat the trust is automatically gone and take note trust is not easy to put back and more worst it will never be back. even if there is no cheating involved but if you do not trust your partner then jealousy comes in

• Commitment : losing your commitment to your partner is one of a big problem. it is also losing the love little by little.

How to fix your relationship?

communication: try to talk with your partner and listen even if shes unreasonable
take time to listen and that could be a one way to see what really is the problem
between you and her.

Do not point out: do not say its you... because you...or in other words you always want to
point out the the problem is your partner and not you. that was totally wrong why do not
 you ask yourself whats wrong with me? is there anything wrong with me?. most of the people wont accept that that they were wrong the thing is you did not know that you both contribute on the problem
why do not accept the responsibility instead of putting the blame to your partner.


Seek additional advice: ask advice ask a couselor or a mediator to seek their advice what would be
best. this is to know how to control and restore the relationship that you have.